I must say, having a relationship go South after an engagement is a tuff thing to go through. On top of your emotions going through a ringer, you then have to explain to all your friends, family, relatives, etc. why they need to return the engagement gifts.
After that’s done, you can then start working your way through the stages of healing (source: wikipedia);
Example – “I feel fine.”; “This can’t be happening.”
Example – “Why me? It’s not fair!” “NO! NO! How can you accept this!”
Example – “Just let me live to see my children graduate.”; “I’ll do anything, can’t you stretch it out? A few more years.”
Example – “I’m so sad, why bother with anything?”; “I’m going to die . . . What’s the point?”
Example – “It’s going to be OK.”; “I can’t fight it, I may as well prepare for it.”
Based on the newspaper ad that appeared in today’s paper (Mt. Juliet News EXTRA Vol. 2 No. 26, page 7), it’s pretty apparent that “Pauly Bear” has definitely hit stage two “anger”. And boy has he taken it to new heights.
My reactions have been mixed. At first, I was dumbfounded. Then I questioned whether this was real or some kind of weird, misplaced joke. I mean, talk about letting her have it with both shotgun barrels by referring to her as a “nightmare” — DANG!
But if you think about it, it could have been worse — he could have announced this with a Sarah Silverman style breakup video.
All I have to say is I hope both Paul Lee Dunkle and Tammy Sue Lapoint both find happiness.
On a side note to Paul, here’s a tip to help you get over your ex.
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